Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! I realized we don’t talk about sex much, but our prim and proper English flower essences are not always Miss Goody Two Shoes! Sometimes they like to let their hair down and go wild. Bach flower remedies can help us heal wounded sexuality, open us to heightened physical sensation and help us feel beautiful in our bodies, with trust and feelings of bliss.
Remember, these remedies are not just for women. Your partner will love it if you put some drops under their tongue. How crazy intimate is that for your bedtime ritual?
You know I speak about real things here, because our time is valuable and I want you to get the most out of our communications. I talk about sexual abuse in the remedies below, because for me personally, this was the biggest thing that prevented me from connecting sexually in relationships, and flower remedies are the thing that has helped me the most to heal.
I hope these help you too.
Lots of Love,
Alexis
TANTRIC VIBES
IN LOVE - How can we go by Valentine’s Day and not talk about In Love? This formula connects the heart during sex, builds trust and intimacy, really lets your partner see you. If you want cosmic blissed out sex with your lover, this is the one.
LIBIDO
When our vitality is low, we preserve energy by losing interest in sex. In Chinese medicine, they call this drained life force “Jing depletion.” They say having sex can drain our Jing. So if you are feeling low libido, it means likely you need more Jing and adrenal fortification.
UNBURDEN - Connect to your femininity. And by this I mean the soft, receptive qualities that make sex fun and in the moment. When you need Unburden, you are all business. You can’t clock out and relax. Your libido is missing because you are exhausted and worried about your kids, your work, mundane things that are far away from the bedroom. If you take Unburden regularly, you will start to feel so good in your body, with a heightened sense of pleasure.
BEAUTY FORMULA NO.8 - This is a two-for-one- it will make you glow with magnetic beauty, as it rejuvenates you and gives you energy when you are deeply exhausted. You’re a wild cat!
MOON RIVER - Hormones seem to rule everything we do. How can these little things run the show? Moon River will help you connect back to your sexuality if you are feeling out of balance from PMS, post-partum or you’ve lost your lust since peri-menopause/menopause. You’ll feel back to your sexy self in no time.
FOR THE NERVOUS NELLY
WALLFLOWER - You’ve always wished you could be a little more wild in the boudoir. But you have to keep the lights off. You think "What if they look at me? What if I make weird noises? Are they judging me? Do I look funny at this angle? How do I get out of bed to pee later without them seeing my body?” These are the sexual fears of the Wallflower. This formula will make you feel so easy breezy you won’t recognize your self (unless you keep the lights on). Watch out world.
MAN UP
GANESH - It happens to everyone once in a while. You lose your “enthusiasm.” We like a soft and gentle man, but not at this moment! Women can have performance anxiety too. Men go soft and we get dry. Ganesh will give you confidence and remove the performance anxiety that can ruin a night. The confidence will find its way out of the bedroom too and really bring positive energy and success to the rest of your life.
SEXUAL HEALING
Many of us have suffered sexual trauma in our past and it affects our relationships and intimacy to different degrees. These two formulas are my most gentle healers to help you let go of that past trauma and connect to healthy sexuality and body love.
SAFE AND SOUND - If any trauma from the past has left you feeling unsafe in your body, you must take Safe and Sound first to heal this fear, before you take any other formulas. Safe and Sound helps remove the cause of our fear, the memories that come up and trigger us. The healing happens slowly and gently, and soon you will begin to feel relaxed in your body, feel more trust with your partner and be able to let go and enjoy sex.
BEAUTY FORMULA NO.7 - Being sexually violated can leave you with lasting feelings of guilt and shame, though you were the victim. It can leave terrible scars on our self esteem, making us feel ugly, embarrassed, or hating our selves. It’s such a tragedy that the innocent should carry these wounds. It can make it hard to have a healthy connection to our own sexuality, when it is so coupled with these negative experiences and feelings. This formula is not just a clear skin remedy, but a deep healer to remove shame and anything else that is not yours, reconnecting you to your whole and true self, which is beautiful! It also has a little extra magic floral that acts as a spell-breaker, cutting psychic cords to anyone you don’t want to be connected to.